complicated relationships

I always thought that a poly group marriage sounded really complicated, but Joyce has been telling me about the relationship train wrecks that various members of her family have been having while pretending to be monogamous, and now two husbands, a wife, and a wife-in-law seems downright simple by comparison.

Moral of the story: If you are not being monogamous, don’t pretend! (And if you can’t be good, be careful, and if you can’t be careful, try to keep it down to five or six verses.)

the "a deux" meme

Meme going around, which I first saw in cflute‘s journal:

“If you and I were alone in a room right now, what would we be doing?”

Once you’ve answered, you can post this in your journal, and see what folks want to do with you. :)